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Young, Lyle

YOUNG, Lyle

1958 - 2025

Young, Lyle Robert

1958 - 2025

Lyle's life was a testament to exuberance, optimism, and a deep joy for living. He steadfastly upheld the principles of honesty, love, and care for others.

Born in 1958 in Kincaid, Saskatchewan, Lyle was the fifth child of farming couple Percy and Kezia (née Martin) Young. After spending his early childhood in Glen Bain, Saskatchewan, the family moved to Regina in 1967 while continuing to farm. Lyle attended Campbell Collegiate, where he immersed himself in music, drama, and a local United Church youth group. During this time, he developed a lifelong passion for canoeing and camping. He forged many close friendships and maintained these connections throughout his life.

As a teenager, Lyle was a disciplined musician, often practicing the alto saxophone before 6:00 a.m. After high school, he pursued classical saxophone studies at Ball State University in Indiana, where he was first introduced to Christian Science. Lyle's thirst for knowledge was boundless. After earning his music degree, he was interviewed for a Rhodes scholarship and did receive a Rotary Fellowship scholarship. He studied French literature at Laval University in Quebec and, remarkably, learned Spanish in just four months before enrolling in a Jesuit university in Buenos Aires to study political science. His curiosity led him on a walking tour of Brazil, where he spent several months in São Paulo and, naturally, learned Portuguese. Upon returning to Canada, he studied for a master's degree in political science at the University of Saskatchewan, writing his examinations in French. He further broadened his horizons with a political internship at the Canadian Parliament in Ottawa and a year of MBA studies at Carleton University.

By this time, Lyle had made Ottawa his permanent home, and it was one of the church members who introduced him to Elisabeth Salm. Raised in a Christian Science family in the Ottawa area, Elisabeth became Lyle's beloved wife in 1990. For their honeymoon, they shared their love of the outdoors with a canoe trip down the Rideau Canal to Kingston. Their affection for each other was reflected in the terms of endearment they used in Dutch, Spanish, French, and English. Lyle's favorite for Elisabeth was the Dutch "hartendiefje"—"little stealer of hearts." They were a perfect complement to one another, sharing a dedication to Christian Science, community, and the environment, always with sensitivity, laughter, and joy.

Lyle and Elisabeth regularly opened their home for meetings and dinners for church events, relatives, neighbours and friends. Over the years they hosted extended stays from Elisabeth’s brother, her mother and a nephew. Lyle’s relationship with the Salm family, both in Canada and in the Netherlands, continued to be important to him after Elisabeth’s tragic passing in 2018.

Lyle's commitment to Christian Science became his life's work. After joining the Ottawa church, he began working as a Christian Science practitioner, helping others realize their spiritual potential. He served as First Reader at Sunday services and Wednesday meetings, presenting the sermon from the Bible and "Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures" by Mary Baker Eddy. Together, Lyle and Elisabeth contributed to numerous church projects and committees. In 2004, they moved to Boston when Lyle was appointed First Reader at The Mother Church, a role he held for three years.

Lyle's work extended globally. He lectured on Christian Science in more than 35 countries in English, French, Spanish, Dutch and Portuguese, served for six years on the Board of Directors at The Mother Church, and authored over 150 articles for church publications. After returning to Ottawa full-time in 2017, he continued teaching Sunday School, mentoring his adult Association students worldwide, and maintaining his full-time public practice as a Christian Science practitioner.

Lyle's life was defined by his passion for serving others, which he carried out with tenderness, integrity, and joy. He was intelligent, well-read, inquisitive, fun-loving, humble, and dependable. His selflessness and ability to see the good in others left a profound impact on everyone he met. Reflecting on his work, Lyle once told a friend, "Why would I not love a job where my boss (God) does the work?"

Lyle will be remembered as an inspiration to all who knew him, especially by his surviving family members: his mother Kezia; his siblings Dale, Gary, Verna, Lauren, and Leslie; Elisabeth's siblings Luc-Anne, Roland, Floris, and Mundie; and his many nephews and nieces. His love and kindness will remain forever in our hearts.

The "Celebration of Life" service will be held Sunday, May 18, 2025 at 6:30 p.m. at the First Unitarian Congregation of Ottawa, 30 Cleary Avenue, Ottawa.

Additionally there will be a dedication ceremony for The Elisabeth C. Salm and Lyle R. Young Community Pollinator Garden on May 17th at the New Edinburgh Park Fieldhouse, 203 Stanley Ave, Ottawa, ON K1M 1P2.  The ceremony will be followed by a potluck dinner at the Fieldhouse.  People are asked to meet at the Fieldhouse at 3:45 with the ceremony to begin at 4:00.

https://ottawacitizen.remembering.ca/obituary/elisabeth-salm-1066391307

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Thé family

Very inspiring men life . All my sympathies to family and friends

Bruno simard, March 4, 2025

Lauren and all the family

My sincere condolences for Lyle’s departure
A ray of sunshine has returned to the Source.
We we lucky to have met him. Many blessings to everyone

Kishori, March 4, 2025

Lyle's family

Dear All,

Please accept our most sincere condolences on the sad occasion of the passing of Lyle! It will be very hard for all of us who knew him well to carry on without him, but we can be glad that it was our privilege to have come in contact as long as we did with such a very lovely person. His love for people, his joy for life, his kindness are staying with all of us forever!

Sincerely,
Mark Liang

Mark Liang, March 4, 2025

The family

My sincere condolences to the family. Lyle was truly a kind, peaceful and loving man. He will be missed. May he rest in peace.
Victoire Tieulatie

Victoire Tieulatie , March 5, 2025

dale.maureen.young@gmail.com

Dale, Gary, Verna, Lauren, Leslie, and our beloved Aunt Ky,

While I knew of Lyle’s prowess on saxophone, his travels in Brazil, his mastery of several languages, and his rise to First Reader at the Mother Church of Christian Science in Boston, there are so many aspects of his life that I didn’t know. Marianne and I stayed with Lyle and Elisabeth in Boston for a few days. They were both so kind and welcoming, but also so humble and down to earth that we were never made aware of Lyle’s many amazing accomplishments. It is so sad that one so gifted has been taken from us all too soon. We share in your sorrow.

Stewart Wilkinson, March 6, 2025

Family

Lyle was a kind soul and a true gentleman. He and Elisabeth were very close to my sister Jennifer and my mother Patricia through their common love for Christian Science.
He was always very positive and loving and had a great strength of character.
My thoughts are with his family .
Jeff Rosebrugh
Ottawa

Jeff Rosebrugh, March 7, 2025

Family

We were very fortunate to visit with Lyle and Elizabeth when we were in Ottawa. Our sincere condolences to all the family

Myrna & David , March 7, 2025

dale.maureen.young@gmail.com

To all the Young cousins and in particular Aunt Kay, our deepest condolences on Lyle’s passing. Far too young and way out of the natural order. I know he will be missed by him family but many more around the world. May He rest in peace.

Keith and Carol, March 10, 2025

Family

The first time he traveled to Angola as a Professor, lecturer and brother in Christ, he rode with me in the car during his stay, we talked about spirituality. He invited me to meet Ontawa. I always remember him with love, peace and joy.
Lyle will be remembered as an inspiration to all angolan in our church

Luquengui Rebeca, March 25, 2025

Lyle R. Young

Sou muito grata a Deus por ter conhecido o nosso irmão Lyle. Participei muitas vezes das suas conferência, falei com ele em particular e pedia alguns trabalhos a mesma Mente Divina que habitava em ti continuará em nós com todo o Poder sempre que nós recordarmos de ti ou lendo algum artigo que indicaste...
Deus seja louvado por tudo o bem.

Rosa Quingongo Francisco Alberto , March 26, 2025

Lyle Young

Dearest family,
Thank you for the beautiful tribute to Lyle.
He has gone on far too soon.
I send you my deepest sympathy upon learning of Lyle’s passing.
I had the privilege of working with him very close as his executive assistant when he served First Reader at Sunday services and Wednesday meetings from 2004 - 2007 at The Mother Church in Boston, Massachusetts for three years. Since then, He and Elisabeth were very good friends with me and my husband, Pancho, getting together for dinners from time to time. Pancho and I worked with Lyle preparing for church services in Spanish. Lyle joked with Pancho, that in helping draft the announcements for Lyle to read at services, that Pancho wrote like Cervantes.
We were in frequent contact by email and What’s App, even as recently as his birthday on Feb. 1. I am saddened to learn this news. My heartfelt prayer goes out to you all. I’ll be with you in spirit day by day, including on the occasion of the celebration of his incomparable life.
I'm sending along a poem: “Death is Nothing At All” by Henry Scott Holland that has been a sweet thought for me. There is a precious hymn #218 - with an uplifting message.

“Death is Nothing At All” by Henry Scott Holland
Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is death, but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well.

A cherished hymn is 218:
O Life that maketh all things new,
The blooming earth, the thoughts of men;
Our pilgrim feet, wet with Thy dew,
In gladness hither turn again.
From hand to hand the greeting flows,
From eye to eye the signals run,
From heart to heart the bright hope glows,
The seekers of the Light are one:
One in the freedom of the truth,
One in the joy of paths untrod,
One in the heart’s perennial youth,
One in the larger thought of God; –
The freer step, the fuller breath,
The wide horizon’s grander view;
The sense of Life that knows no death, –
The Life that maketh all things new.

I’m thinking of Lyle as I read a verse from Psalms 118:24. – This is the day the Lord hath made, we will rejoice and be glad in it.

My heartfelt prayers and blessings embrace you all.
Lovingly,
Sylvia (together with my daughters Jennifer and Jessica)

Sylvia Herczeg, March 29, 2025