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Laven, Annemieke (Anne) - Obituaries | Fédération des Coopératives Funéraires du Québec

Laven, Annemieke (Anne)

LAVEN, Annemieke (Anne)

1954 - 2024

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the sudden passing of Annemieke (Anne) Laven on October 28, 2024, at the Ottawa Hospital. She suffered a stroke while enjoying a beautiful fall day on her power wheelchair—a fitting testament to her resilience and love of life.
 
Born on February 1, 1954, in Bandung, Indonesia, Annemieke was of Dutch heritage and was a beloved 70-year-old wife, mother, and sister. She is survived by her devoted husband, Philip Lillies, her sons Ehren Lillies and Vernon Lillies, and her siblings, Hendrik Laven, Cornelia Laven and James Laven. Her extended family reaches across the globe, with connections not only across Canada, but also to Bangladesh, China, Europe, and Trinidad.
 
A celebration of Annemieke’s life will be held at the Funeral Co-operative of Ottawa on November 17 at 2 pm, with options to attend both in person and via Zoom. As space is limited to 45 attendees, we kindly request an RSVP for those wishing to attend in person to plillies@hotmail.com or by calling (613) 986-0933. A Zoom link will be provided to immediate friends and family, though others may request access as well.
 
In the last year of her life, Annemieke became deeply concerned about the situation in the Middle East. In lieu of flowers, we invite donations to Independent Jewish Voices, a Canadian Jewish organization dedicated to educating Canadians on the realities in Palestine. If you choose to make a donation, please send a note to the RSVP address, and the family will match the amount contributed.
 
Annemieke’s vibrant spirit and boundless love touched all who knew her, and she will be deeply missed.

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12 messages received

Philip

Dear Philip, I am writing to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. I know how much you loved Anne through the stories you would tell when we worked together at the PSC.

Chris MacDonald, November 7, 2024

Phil and family

So sorry for this loss for you all. Annemieke was a remarkable person. Her gentle and generous spirit touched my life immensely. May you, who knew her best, find comfort and courage as you remember the beautiful life that she shared with you.
Love,
Marilyn

Marilyn Lillies , November 7, 2024

Phil and Erhen and Vernon

Anne will always be remembered for her kind, sweet, gracious spirit. She was always eager for doing all of life and had a witty way of seeing the world and life. She was so appreciative and committed to making the best of every situation. I am so glad for the visits we had with her and her travels here to be with us. She will live on in our memories with joy. I am so sorry for that you had to say good bye so soon.

Marj Lillies, November 7, 2024

Laven and Lillies families

Anne and I met in Waterloo as we both had children the same age. Every week we would spend one day together using the time we weren't occupied with our little ones to chat about anything and everything. I remember one day she was telling me about being at the hospital with her precious newborn son. She was so full of love for him that she began singing a lullaby of her own invention. A nurse burst into the room, full of concern, because she had heard terrible wailing. Anne's way of telling the story had me laughing so hard my stomach hurt. She was creative, insightful and a true friend. My Waterloo days were challenging as my oldest son had health problems and my family was far away. Having Anne to brighten my weeks was a blessing. I will always treasure my memories of her.

Rachel Goddyn, November 7, 2024

Philip and Family

Sending you warmest compassion and empathy. Wishing you to find and continue to hold Joy in the gifts she so richly gave to you. Sincerely, Annette Kay

Annette Kay Donnell, November 8, 2024

Phil Lillies

So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Anne to whom I know you were devoted. Wishing you comfort and peace.

Marlene Rivier, November 8, 2024

Philip and Family

Dear Philip,

I am writing to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family. Anne was such a warn kind and generous woman who always had warmth and kindness to extend to others. I will miss Anne dearly and will carry her memory with me always...

Rodney

Rodney, November 8, 2024

Laven and Lillies families

Dear Philip, Hendrik, Corrie, Jim and family,
I'm so very sorry to hear of Annemieke's passing. I have fond memories of meeting her at Corrie's home in Toronto and visiting her and Philip in Waterloo when the boys were little. She was such a warm, kind and positive person and I know she will be deeply missed. Sending you my love at this difficult time.

Debby Miller, November 13, 2024

Laven et Lillies famille

Je n'ai malheureusement pas eu le bonheur de vraiment connaître Anne, ne l'ayant rencontrée qu'il y a quelques mois. Mais j'ai tout de suite été conquis par son beau regard, son sourire et sa grande générosité. Mon amie Renée, qui était sa voisine, la considérait comme une grande amie qui la comprenait et sur qui elle pouvait compter. Renée ne pouvant exprimer sa peine, je vous transmets à vous Phil et famille nos plus sincères condoléances.

Paul-André baril, November 15, 2024

Phil, Ehren et Vernon

Je sais à quel point vous aimiez Anne, une tendre épouse et maman aimante. Phil me parlait souvent de la passion d'Anne pour la culture et de la fierté qu'elle ressentait pour les réussites de ses deux fils, des sentiments qu'elle a su partager et qui resteront avec nous pour toujours.

Guy Desaulniers, November 16, 2024

Aunt Anne

Thank you Aunt Anne, for your kindness and hospitality. The Invitation to stay with you in France was life-changing for me. I developed a deep love of travel, the courage to try using another language, and an appreciation for another culture. Your family will always hold a special place in my heart!

Jackie Gilliland, November 17, 2024

Uncle Philip and Family

I am so sorry for your loss, for the missing presence of Auntie Anne. She was a family pillar, wonderful person, and beautiful soul.
I will always remember the welcome, conversation and hospitality you both shared with me when I visited Ottawa. They are memories that I will always treasure.
Please know that she will always be in my heart and I hope that you find strength and courage for each day ahead .

Patricia Culleton-Koebel, November 18, 2024