MCINNES, Amy Lindsay Marie

It is with heavy hearts, we announce the passing of our precious daughter, Amy Lindsay Marie McInnes, on September 23, 2023, at the tender age of 23.

Amy, beloved daughter of Angela J. Whelan and Gordon McInnes, leaves behind her devoted sister, Meagan McInnes. She was the adored granddaughter of Georges H. Whelan and of the late Annabel Mary Kilby (Whelan). Amy is preceded in death by her uncles Mark, Michael, and Matthew Whelan, and is survived by her uncle James Whelan (Natalie Smith). She will be missed by her grandparents Frances and Lorne McInnes, as well as her uncle Bryant McInnes. Amy also leaves behind a host of relatives, cousins, her bestie Alex, and many cherished friends.

A celebration of Amy's life will be held at St. Mark Catholic Church, located at 160 Principale Street, Aylmer, Quebec, on Wednesday, October 11th at 11:00 a.m. A burial will follow later in the fall in Luskville, Quebec.

Amy possessed a heart that knew no bounds and a smile that could light up any room. She held a deep love for her family, arts and crafts, collections of bears, various hobbies, swimming, canoeing and video games. Above all, she cherished her love for horses, her babies and her pets despite her courageous battle with Prader-Willi Syndrome and chronic medical issues. Her canine companion Mae, her therapy dog, and her feline friends Emma and Treasure were the embodiment of her love and compassion. While they remain with family who will care for them, we find comfort in knowing that Amy now walks alongside her beloved dog Mea.

In memory of Amy's time at CHEO, and in honour of her unwavering kindness and love for infants, we invite you to consider making a donation in her name to the CHEO Foundation through this link: https://secure.cheofoundation.com/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app20048a?df_id=1520&1520.donation=form1&mfc_pref=T&NONCE_TOKEN=917C9EC05660CF07501E566D2AA987BA.

To pay tribute to Amy's cherished companions and her wish for them always to be taken care of in this life journey without her, please consider donating through this funding effort https://gofund.me/d275ba4d

You may watch the replay of the funeral by clicking on the following link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjCshn8sIdc

Online condolences for Amy can be shared at www.cfo.coop

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19 messages received

Angela, Gord and the families

I was shocked and saddened when I heard of the passing of my “Amos”. I will miss her terribly and will never forget all that she brought to my life. Rest easy sweet heart. ️

Norma Splane, October 6, 2023

Angela, Gord and Mead

We are absolutely gutted. Amy was a life long friend to Mike and I and our kids (including our pup Syd). She was absolute sunshine. Always smiling and finding the positive in every situation. It was an honour to know her. Sending our condolences and warm hugs to you all. Xoxo
Rest in peace Ames

Lisa and Mike Burke, October 6, 2023

Dear McInnes and Whelan Families,

I was so deeply sorry to learn of Amy's passing. I had the privilege of teaching Amy. We shared many laughs, she often spoke of her beloved pets and I saw first hand talent for crafting. She painted a lovely picture of a dog as a Christmas present for me. I have met many students and through the years but Amy was one of the most memorable. I will always hold a special place for Amy in my heart.

Carrie Roney, October 6, 2023

Dear McInnes and Whelan Families,

I was so deeply sorry to learn of Amy's passing. I had the privilege of teaching Amy. We shared many laughs, she often spoke of her beloved pets and I saw first hand her talent for crafting. She painted a lovely picture of a dog as a Christmas present for me. I have met many students through the years and Amy was one of the most memorable. I will always hold a special place for Amy in my heart.

Carrie Roney, October 6, 2023

Angela, Gordon, Meagan, Grandpa Georges and families

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Amy. Losing someone so young is so incredibly difficult, and our hearts go out to you and everyone who knew and loved her. Please know that we are here for you if there's anything we can do to support you during this painful and challenging time.

Heaven has another Angel....... Rest in Peace Sweet Amy.

All our love
Aunt Victoria, Doug and family

Victoria Lloyd, October 7, 2023

Angela, Meagan and family

Our hearts are truly broken. It’s hard to wrap our heads around this loss — Amy was truly an exceptional human being. She made us smile, she always made us feel at home, and most importantly, she changed our Alex’s life forever. Amy was a gift we will forever be grateful for. We know her memory will never fade, because she lives in every single person whose path she crossed and whose days she made brighter with her joyful laugh and her iridescent smile. We love you Amy.

Marie-Claude, Charles, Alex and Simon , October 7, 2023

Angela, Gord, Meg, George and family

Words can't express the sorrow we feel. Amy’s life was a gift, and her legacy will continue to inspire us all. She always had a smile that would light up a room. Sending you our love and prayers for strength as you find your way through each day. Ames will be greatly missed.

Elena, Rod and Vanessa Goobie xo, October 10, 2023

Angela and family

Deepest heartfelt sympathies to you Angela and family during this heavy darkness of grief and pain.

Wishing you much comfort in memories of your beautiful Amy.

Monique and Robert Rock, October 10, 2023

Angela et Georges

Nous tenons à vous exprimer nos très sincères sympathies pour le départ de Amy. En espérant que les beaux souvenirs que vous gardez d'elle apportent un peu de baume sur votre tristesse.

Francine, Ginette, Alain et Clayre Bertrand, October 10, 2023

À ma chère amie Angie , à Mead (née Meaghan) et à Monsieur Whelan

À ma chère amie Angie: Il n'y a pas de mots qui peuvent réconforter la douleur, la tristesse et le vide ressentis par la perte d'une enfant, peu importe son âge. Amy était ton rayon de soleil au quotidien et ta compagne de vie. Elle avait une "âme spéciale" et une connexion unique avec les animaux. Elle incarnait à bien des égards sa grand-maman Annabel, par ses traits physiques et son timbre de voix. Amy aimait la vie et n'avait que bonté et rires en elle. Et elle souhaitait toujours ton bonheur, et toi de même. Vous étiez à quelque part soudées par les circonstances de la vie. Tu as été une maman exceptionnelle aux côtés de Amy en te donnant corps et âme pour répondre à tous ses besoins et l'envelopper d'amour. Tu as su créer un environnement sécuritaire et salutaire en revendiquant ses droits et en te portant à sa défense. Ma belle Angie, tu as tout donné. Il n’y a plus que toi, Mead, ton papa, frère, famille et amis. Ta vie vient d'être bouleversée à nouveau telle qu'elle a été bousculée par l'arrivée de Amy (une enfant ayant des besoins spéciaux) il y a 23 ans. Je sais que tu puiseras en toi pour trouver la force et le courage de continuer à vivre pleinement ta vie en misant sur TOI et les causes pour lesquelles tu veux te battre. Car, Angie, tu es une femme combattante à jamais.

À Mead : Tu as su accueillir l'arrivée de ta sœur Amy dès ton jeune âge. Tu as su la comprendre et l’aimer sans jugement sachant qu’elle serait différente des autres et aurait toujours des besoins spéciaux. Je me souviens lorsque tu prenais soin d’elle et savait exactement ce dont Amy avait besoin. Tu pouvais la lire. Avec les années, tu as également compris que la vie de Amy et celle de tes parents seraient à jamais compromises. Ça n’a pas été facile pour toi, car parfois tu aurais souhaité un retour à la « normale ». Tu as dû porter sur tes épaules bien des épreuves, ma belle. La perte de ta sœur Amy vient de marquer un tournant dans ta vie. Tu trouveras la résilience en toi pour donner un sens à cette épreuve et continuer à profiter de la vie pleinement. N’oublie pas que tu es jeune et que l’avenir t’appartient.

À Monsieur Whelan : Je ne sais pas comment vous faites pour côtoyer la mort d’êtres chers, membres de votre famille immédiate, aussi souvent ces dernières années. Pourquoi eux? Et pas vous, est-ce la question? Pourquoi partent-ils avant vous? Comment donner un sens à tout ça? Tout ce qu’il me vient à l’esprit c’est que votre présence sur terre apporte un sens à vos proches et aux autres qui vous côtoient au quotidien. Vous êtes sûrement le bastion de la famille. Les petits gestes au quotidien, tels les cafés et muffins de Tim Hortons, seront à jamais gravés dans la mémoire de ceux qui vous aiment. Amy était bien votre petite-fille ‘spéciale’. Vous aviez une complicité ensemble; il suffisait de peu de mots pour avoir un dialogue entre vous deux. Amy adorait votre compagnie. Je sais qu’elle vous manquera de beaucoup.

À toute la famille, recevez mes sympathies les plus sincères et profondes. Je suis avec vous en pensée et de cœur. Je trouverai le moment pour vous retrouver en présentiel dans les mois qui suivront. Un dernier gros câlin à Amy.

Silvia xxx

Silvia Dancose, October 10, 2023

Angela Whelan

Dear Angela, I am so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain, and know how hard it is to grasp the passing of your own child. She was twinkling star here on earth, and will trade her sparkles for the wings of an Angel. May God give you strength to see light and hope, may you find reasons to keep smiling each day and night for every tomorrow.

Catharine Osadec, October 10, 2023

Angela

Chère Angie
Je viens de voir que tu as perdu ta fille, je suis tellement désolée
J’ai beaucoup de peine pour toi et ta famille. Je vous souhaite mes plus sincères condoléances
Je pense à toi très fort
Bon courage , un merveilleux ange veille maintenant sur vous
Je t’embrasse xx

Danye Bélanger , October 11, 2023

Angela et Gordon

Je suis de tout coeur avec vous durant cette difficile épreuve. Amy fait partie de vous et son son courage et sa détermination vous aidera à avancer.
Sincères condoléances

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Amy is a part of you and her courage and determination will help you move forward.
Sincere condolences

Marie-Hélène , October 11, 2023

La famille

Je suis consternée par le décès d'Amy. J'ai rencontré cet ange au service de garde de Madeleine. Une petite fille enjouée, dévouée envers ses peluches et les garçons dans son service de garde, car elle était la seule fille et elle prenait sa place! Ricaneuse et heureuse, Amy a touché mon coeur d'adulte. Je remercie la vie de l'avoir mis sur mon parcours de vie. Qu'elle repose en paix.

Nathalie Charron, October 11, 2023

Amy Lindsay Marie McInnes

I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. I have fond memories of Amy walking down the halls of D'Arcy and sharing her big smile and all-around joy with everybody. She was a ray of sunshine.

My thoughts are with your family during these difficult times.

Wayne Burke, October 11, 2023

Angela and Family

Deeply sorry to hear about Amy’s passing. Being her bus buddy was always fun and gave me a sense of responsibility to make sure she got home safely. It definitely helped that we were neighbours! Sending condolences from our family to yours through this difficult time.

Rest in Peace Amy

Stefanie Nelson, October 11, 2023

Gordo

My sincere sympathy goes out to you on the loss of Amy. It is so very difficult to lose a child. Amy was a special girl who I really enjoyed meeting at Elliott Lake.We did plenty of joking and teasing back and forth back then. I know you are missing her tremendously & I'm sending you my tightest hugs and offering my love to you and hope to see you in the near future

Susan O'Connor , October 12, 2023

Familly

We are so sadded by the passing of Amy. She was a ray of sunshine and such a smart girl. We will miss her but keep her in our hearts.
Andree and Philip

Andree Duval, October 14, 2023

Angela and family

Mes condoléances Angela. Le temps n'efface pas la peine mais je souhaite qu'il allège ta peine. Courage

Sonya-Kim St-Julien, October 17, 2023